Is The One Out There?
We all have watched many love stories on the silver screen unfold and the new common craze reality dating shows. Who doesn’t want the fairytale to be swept off your feet and fall madly in love? The quest of looking for Prince Charming or your Dream Girl can be very frustrating. There are times when it seems like there is no one out there for you and you will never fall in love. God has a plan for each of us and there is someone out there for you.
The timing just has to be right. Go to God and ask Him for his guidance and help. Leave it in God’s hands and have faith He will bring the man or women of your dreams into your life. If you are dating someone and you think he or she is the one, but it doesn’t wok out, remember there are a lot of fish in the sea and someone even better is out there for you. If it is God’s will for you to be with him or her, nothing will get in the way of it happening.
10 Things to Look for in a Godly Guy or Girl
1.Integrity
2.Loyalty
3.Strength
4.Gentleness
5. Self-control
6. Honesty
7. Respect
8. Friendship
9. Humor
10. Leadership
Dating Tips:
Dating can be a stressful situation. We have all been on a good date as well as a bad date. These dates are character-building opportunities. They help us figure out what we are and are not looking for in a future mate. Here are some tips to help make your dates go smoother and make those bad dates seem a little bearable.
-Take the time to look your best.
-Joke around with each other and have a good time, but be sure not to joke about everything. There are times when serious conversations need to take place.
-It’s okay to tease and flirt.
-Pay close attention to your nonverbal cues as well as your date’s.
-Listen carefully to what your date has to say.
-Watch for red flags.
-If you say you are going to call, actually do it. You don’t always have to follow the two day rule. If you are not going to call, don’t say you will.
-Use good manners.
-Follow common chivalry. Guys—open doors and help her put on her coat. Girls like to be taken care of and guys want to take care of someone.
-Discuss your religious views.
-Don’t make out with someone because you think that will secure the relationship to continue. Also be sure you don’t do anything that contradicts God’s law. God wants you to keep your body pure.
-A little mystery is good!
– Ask God for wisdom and direction in the relationship.
“By their fruits you will recognize them.” Matthew 7:20
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